Thanks for all your advice! I think it will really help
cylon: Your advice about conversations being a game really helped, I like games.
ticktockclok: Theres some nice articles on there, I'll have to read more of them.
Colm: That second link about "vibing" really hit the nail on the head. After reading that, I realized I have a major problem "stalling", but the tips he gives seem like a great place to start learning.
Thanks again!