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Old 01-29-2007, 04:54 PM
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Default it's about them, not about you

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Originally Posted by sv800 View Post
It came to my attention a post from shoemoney of shoemoney.com, where he claims that people will hate soon as you success.
Will more people hate you as you become more successful?

If you believe they will, then as you become successful, you will see more and more hate around you as you start to grow and move up in the world.

Of course, just because you see it, doesn't mean it is real. We humans are infamous for reading between the lines and coming up with 'facts' that weren't there to begin with.

"I've had thousands of problems, most of which never even happened." - Mark Twain

Occasionally though, it will be real. Someone else with have a big problem with the fact that you've been successful. But so what?

The thing you have to remember is that other people's reactions are based in their own history and their own programming. They were taught to react in a certain way, and that's how they are reacting. How they feel about you and your success is a product of the rest of their life.

It's about them, not about you.

Rebecca
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