I'll quote Hicks-Abraham as that's what I'm currently studying..
(this quote is the essence not word for word)
"If you’re driving down the highway (and I use this one a lot) the people driving with you were all brought by your vibration/attraction it's not a coincidence"
What I'm really trying to understand (and yah like you.. I like to understand) is if there are infinite realities.. based on seth works.. meaning there are billions of me and probably you too