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Originally Posted by marinik  a man I adore and miss and long for. |
A man, to quote you, you wouldn't want to live with for more than ten minutes.
Hence, intimacy issues. It's one thing to be intimate for a few days at a time when you meet up in a hotel after longing and missing someone for long periods of time.
It's another thing to build intimate through day to day physical encounters.
Just because your situation doesn't parallel mine exactly, doesn't mean it's not the same TYPE of relationship....one that's lived out in your imagination for most of the time. And an FYI, my "online" relationship wasn't with text on a screen. 90% of it took place on the phone.
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Originally Posted by marinik I have tried to end this a few times because it has no future but he just stuck in there and didn't let me go. |
Why would you continously stay in a relationship that you "tried to end a few times" but couldn't because he was too relentless in bringing you back?
Unless....you have intimacy issues.
I'm not trying to hound you, I'm just being blunt. I would think that it's important to at least be honest with yourself about your situation, whether it's something you want to face or not.
Why?
Because, as I said, while you are wasting your time with this guy, there is another guy out there for you who is just as good for you, except he can actually offer you a daily commitment, a real life, flesh and blood relationship and actually be there for you when you need him....physically.
EDIT: This is just my speculation, but it sounds like this guy is getting the milk for free without any of the real commitment.
Hell, my kingdom for the kind of set up he has with you. He gets to have sex with you as often as he'll find the time to meet up with you, without actually having to do any of the real day to day maintenance and any of the real commitment that a deep relationship needs. All this while convincing you that it's a perfect set up, that it can never lead to anything more than what it is right now, and knowing he can string you back in if you try to get away.