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Originally Posted by ssandra  wow... and I´ve only been away for one weekend.... |
Yeah couldn’t wait for you though
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Originally Posted by ssandra Because physically handling it doesn´t say anything about mentally being able to handle it.. |
I thought that the mental faculty has a lot to do with the way we physically handle situations ssandra? The brains in away predetermines if the body in a position to absorb the phallus if a 40m year old, that is if she has made a personal decision to engage in the act. Or are you saying that 14 year olds cannot differentiate between pain and pleasure?
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Originally Posted by ssandra IF a 14 yr old is ready for sex they can find other 14 or 15 yr olds to have sex with. Like it said, it is about experimentation, learning your body, learning what you like. Not being used by the power an adult has over you at that age.. |
What I know is that unless it is rape where one party forcefully exercises potent power over another I think the only notable difference between a 14 year old and a 40 year old is experience otherwise they have equal power based on give and take. If you talk of learning/experimentation I believe an experienced tutor is well placed to guide you through the basic steps than a fumbling teacher who does not understand what it is in the first place.
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Originally Posted by ssandra You keep saying that a 40 year old with a small penis does less harm to a 14 year old than another 14 year old, but I have not heard you adress the power issue yet.
Do you think there is no power issue? |
My 3 years old daughter influences most of my decisions to her favour everyday, am convinced that manipulation is an inbuilt mechanism is women that all they might initially lack is the knowledge of their power over men, but this does not stop them from unconsciously doing it now and then. In all relationships that I have witnessed or participated women irrespective of experience have power over men with sex as the preferred weapon of choice.
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Originally Posted by ssandra Do you think there is no power issue? . |
Power herein lies at the hands of the provider and in this instance am convinced via experience that the women irrespective of age can make any man kill for sex! And they always both knowingly or unknowingly wield and use what they have to get what they want; this is real power!
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Originally Posted by ssandra Do you think that at the age where somebody can decide that they have a crush on Justin Timberlake and they will just "DIE" if they cannot go to the concert, has the mental capacity to decide that this 40 year old is not using his power, is not manipulating her (or him) but is actually in love and only wants what is best..?. |
Ssandra are you saying you no longer have any kind of crush of the opposite sex who you find to be physically attractive to you? Me thinks you are more experienced in understanding the futility of the feeling rather the absolute lack of it.
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Originally Posted by ssandra Maybe there are a few. Could be. Too bad for them. Tough luck, sex doesn´t run away, they can have sex with 40 year olds for the rest of their lives after they turn 18.
But for all the others, that cannot see that difference, we need to protect them! because they cannot yet protect themselfs. |
Why do we adore those who have become millionaires at a very young age and consider them as role models but abhor those who experience ‘physical sex education’ at what we consider an (mentally) immature age? If the issue is as you have put it, that sex ‘wont run away’ why then delay the inevitable?