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Originally Posted by James81  So, by putting your time into this long distance relationship that you know will never work beyond long distance, you are essentially garaunteeing that you won't find a man with whom you COULD live with and have it work and garaunteeing you will not have the intimacy that comes from having that person who lives with you who can not only make you happy, never get fed up with, but offer you the intimacy that is the core of a solid relationship that actually can go somewhere beyond a certain level.
If I were you, I'd check my beliefs. I'd say it is more likely that you are staying in a relationship that can't go beyond a certain point because of some intimacy issues that are either conscious and you ignore or that are subconscious and are driving your actions.
I can't imagine being in a relationship that will plateau at a certain point and can never work on a deeper, more intimate level. |
Well I have been in a relationship you describe and every day life "swallowed" it. A this moment I do not need what you are describing. This is exactly what I need and you are very wrong if you think there is more intimacy than in what is a "close" relationship. On the contrary. I have never been so close to and with anyone.
And no I haven't any intimacy issues.