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Originally Posted by marinik  Dear Magneta maybe it has a lot to do with his Italian Catholic upbringing. But do you know him really or you know your dream about the life you would have with him?
I have been in a LDR with the most wonderful real!!! man with whom I wouldn't live for more than 10 minutes! So take the time to get to know this man of your dreams, spend the 4 years preparing in an exciting way.... or just do something and go to this town where he is if he wants this. As for your son... kids adapt very quickly. It is your life. I have 4 of them and they are my treasure but they have all left and have their lives. I have at least another 25 (if I look at my parents) so ... thing about it. Not saying you be selfish just take care of you first to be able to take care of others.
Love m |
You're right. It does have a lot to do with his Italian Catholic upbringing. He isn't dating, nor is she. He's told me several times he wishes he'd have gotten the divorce 10-15 years ago.
Okay, I have to ask: How can you be in a wonderful LDR with someone that you wouldn't live with for more than 10 min? What makes it wonderful, then? Your freedom?
