Hello! I LOVE THIS FORUM!
My life has been a struggle to rise social status since about the age of 13!
here's my story:
I live outside a little place 15miles outside a city, and all the "cool people" from the city really looks down on everyone and everything from this little place(bad starting point), high school mentality at it's worst!
I early realized that if i didn't get any cool friends(know it sounds silly) from outside of my shitplace than i wouldn't ever being able to get to know hot chicks, go to cool parties and so on!
So me and a friend who is a year older, who also got the "picture" decided to ACT upon the situation! IMPROVE! (drop fat, earn more, fresh clothes, confident, successfull in school and so on)
If i look back 2 years i was : a fat physically strong guy(this is my best quality! i squatted over 420pounds at age of 15)with low self esteem and NO chance with chicks and nearly a criminal because of bitternes towards the world in general (my own failure i guess!)
NOW: i am a fit and hadsome guy who actually have managed to build my social proof and many of the "cool people" (successfull people who get ALL the chicks) greets me and somehow "respect's me" as a friend, although i still live where i started. But girls won't be with a guy who lives where i live as a couple(it's very unpractical ! and unattractive, have heard it lots of times! )
here is the deal: i am 100% dependent on my friend because he is the only guy with a car, I can't plan meeting people and so on BECAUSE I AM DEPENDENT ON TRANSPORT which only he can provide me, THIS IS SO F...ED UP he also must drive me home when we/i have been out, i hate being dependent on others, it puts me in a awful emotional state! my friend moves in 8months ! so i am on my own then.
So i seriously consider doing something drastically : what would you do in my situation!?
HOW CAN PEOPLE HANDLE LIMITING ENVIRONMENTS AS THIS,!!!? don't see any opportunities right now!
anyone been in a similar situation?
this post may be at bit whining BUT i am deply stuck and feeling needy
ALL answers are very much appriciated!!
have a great day everyone
