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Originally Posted by siryessir08  My parents have always had an idea about what my future beholds. I disappointed them when I realized that college does not fit with my goals. I disappointed them when I told them I'm never going to have a job again. I disappointed them when I got engaged to someone they don't approve of. I disappointed them when I left Christianity after realizing it was a stupid religion.
How do I deal with this? Should I cut them loose? Is family different? Is there a way to help them? |
I think you should grow up and stop needing their approval for every little thing.
A lot of "disappointment" is created in your own mind. You're an adult and make your own decisions. they love you. All you need to do is love them back and accept them for what you perceive as their limitations.
I'd suggest stopping trying to "help them" and just focus on your own life. To me disowning one's parents because you feel you disappointed them is kind of crazy. They took good care of you until you became an adult. They won't always be around. Love them and enjoy the time you have with them.