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TrailBlazer · 06-09-2009, 08:10 PM

Interesting work. I've often struggled with the choice I made with my husband. We too, are VERY opposite and I've said the same things (especially with regards to raising children) about balancing each other out. Even as recently as this past weekend, I daydreamed about having a spouse more like me, though - a real soul mate, then realized that, in my husbands quiet way, he does challenge and push me just as this fantasized soul mate would! LI (laughing inside) This is great advise. Following your intuition, I've found, usually is. It's not always easy accepting, coming to terms with, or appreciating all of the opposite qualities, but looking deeper, you can see how it was all meant to be.

06-09-2009, 08:10 PM	#184 (permalink)
TrailBlazer Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: USA Posts: 14	Cool... Interesting work. I've often struggled with the choice I made with my husband. We too, are VERY opposite and I've said the same things (especially with regards to raising children) about balancing each other out. Even as recently as this past weekend, I daydreamed about having a spouse more like me, though - a real soul mate, then realized that, in my husbands quiet way, he does challenge and push me just as this fantasized soul mate would! LI (laughing inside) This is great advise. Following your intuition, I've found, usually is. It's not always easy accepting, coming to terms with, or appreciating all of the opposite qualities, but looking deeper, you can see how it was all meant to be.