Does it have to be a mutually exclusive choice? Could it be that BOTH the job and marriage is important?
Ramiel has a good good question. What is your purpose? What are you here to do in the world and what are you going to need to do to serve that purpose? Find your path and walk it.
Yes this is kind of abstract advice. Still, it really is the most important question.
As for your bachelors you are going after, keep going for it! You can pick up the learning habit again! You are completely capable of that.