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Old 01-27-2007, 07:06 PM   #10 (permalink)
Lola
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and I realized that without my energy, my partner is still a far way away from being a person that I would want to spend the rest of my life with.

Now I believe I can make this relationship work,

Sweetie - the work is not all yours to do. A relationship does not exist if only one party is participating.

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but I think it would be much ouchier to realize this stuff when you're 20 years older and going through a divorce than when you're 24 and experiencing your first relationship.
Take it from my school-of-hard-knocks-voice-of-experience, Angela is absolutely right.

Have courage.
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