I can really relate to your problem! My life has changed, and I need to find a home for my ex husband's dog. I love this dog and it is heartbreaking..but not nearly as bad as leaving him alone as much as I have to.
I am trying to find him a home. We have a no kill shelter with a month and a half wait!
The guilt is overwhelming, but my dog will be much happier with a family.
I spoke with a counselor and she agreed. She said sometimes we just need someone to tell us it is OK to let go if we cannot properly care for our animals anymore. This experience has caused me so much stress! My life has become all about worrying about my dog, but most of all it's the guilt!
I am passing these words on to you. It is OK to let go! Check with your shelter, run an ad, find homes for your Mother's dogs and cats. This all sounds like it's way too much! You need your life back, and they need happy homes.
P.S. Your Dad should be helping you too. What's up with that?
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