Yeah - there is no way that teaching other people is a way to have a relationship work. This is your issue to deal with.
As Angela said, the man is fine as he is, you are fine as you are. It's acceptance of him and acceptance of yourself that is important. Trying to fix someone else up is usually a projection thing, he's reminded you, of a part of you you can't accept. Look for that part of you with love, and learn something from this.
Your relationship may or may not work out. That's a different thing altogether.
Joy to you
Hazel
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