Hi Magenta,..Wow there is a lot going on in his life. It's interesting his youngest is 17 and close to leaving the nest. Count your blessing there.
I know of one other couple who has stayed married and have been separated for 25 yr's. I don't understand it at all. There are so many ties unbroken. How can either party find someone new to love and move on with their lives when they are still married to eachother? No one wants to date a married person. I just don't get it.
The couple I mentioned are still very much in eachothers life as well. That also seems to be the pattern. I wonder how couples like this react when there finally is someone else in the picture. Has your guy or his wife dated others during all these years of separation?
From what you have said, it is clear he is afraid she will take him to the cleaners if there is a divorce. She also seem very dependant on him. She works for him, has no career of her own, he's involved with her health issues, etc..
I believe in destiny too. It seems possible that the universe might have other plans for his wife..... (Sorry, had to say it.)
I have to wonder if she would be open to him having someone to love?
Clearly it is not a time for visits or actions. I would suggest enjoying your phone visits, and when you have questions ask them so you can relieve the what if's.
Your b-day gift sounds beautiful. I'll check out the web-site.
Keep posting. I think there is a lot that will unfold here.
No I am not with the love of my life. That's another story.
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