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C33 · 01-26-2007, 08:46 PM

Dear Teezee,

I believe that friends are easy to find and hard to keep.

Are you in L.A?
I lived there for a long time and never got used to the "I'll call yous" that meant nothing more than: I liked you but won t bother calling you again.

My piece of advice would be to be friendly and keep you heart open for meeting people virtually anywhere.

I have met a lot of my present friends ,by accident,usually in new cities where I had to get out of my comfort zone to meet new friends. ( lived in 8 different cities).

I met 2 nice girls in a bookstore in Montreal, 2 great friends on the Net, a soul friend in a club in N.Y etc...You get the idea.

I don t know what is your situation, but I would say to hang out in places where you are most likely to meet people with the same lifestyle.If you are single, then hang out in places where single persons would go, if you are a mother, then hang out in parks or such places where mother find themselves.

You are bound to find friends. It is just a matter of time.

01-26-2007, 08:46 PM	#6 (permalink)
C33 Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 623	Good luck on your search! Dear Teezee, I believe that friends are easy to find and hard to keep. Are you in L.A? I lived there for a long time and never got used to the "I'll call yous" that meant nothing more than: I liked you but won t bother calling you again. My piece of advice would be to be friendly and keep you heart open for meeting people virtually anywhere. I have met a lot of my present friends ,by accident,usually in new cities where I had to get out of my comfort zone to meet new friends. ( lived in 8 different cities). I met 2 nice girls in a bookstore in Montreal, 2 great friends on the Net, a soul friend in a club in N.Y etc...You get the idea. I don t know what is your situation, but I would say to hang out in places where you are most likely to meet people with the same lifestyle.If you are single, then hang out in places where single persons would go, if you are a mother, then hang out in parks or such places where mother find themselves. You are bound to find friends. It is just a matter of time.