Usually people who flee commitment have a deep-rooted fear of rejection. He can't reject, abandon, dump, or cheat on you, if were never officially his. It may also tie into feelings of your own insecurity because if you doubt your self worth, you may always be asking 'why is he with me' or 'he's just going to leave me'. These are deep issues and I don't think you can fix them with a thread on an internet forum.
You've got two options. If you don't feel any other reason to commit, you can wait it out. Maybe in time, the fear feelings will fade and you'll be more ready to give it a try. Or the other option is you can explore these topics with a professional therapist/counselor.
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