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Old 06-02-2009, 01:41 AM   #6 (permalink)
TonyToneTone
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Originally Posted by elliot View Post
I tend to overanalyze either other people or myself. I could definitely use some motivation (ie kick in the ass) when it comes to advice on communicating with people I'm not sure I have common ground with.

I enjoy spending time with my friends though lately it hasn't really happened. In the last two weeks I spent about 3 hours with a friend, playing tennis and getting a bit to eat, that's it. All my other friends were busy doing other things. I've tried to meet others on the net, but with no success. I message them and get no response back generally. In a crowd of 200 people I could easily not say a word to any of them. My job involves talking to people all the time though face to face, which is weird.. Advice?
Most people actually are doing the same so realize you're not the only one

Maybe try something like Do something, Learn something, Share something, Change something - Meetup.com and type in what you are looking for? Are you a part of any groups?
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