Both men and women where I live, and that's in a big city by the way, all still drink a lot when out especially in their 20's (he's in his late 20's, still old enough to know better).
Yes, I think he probably was thinking of me hence the text in the 1st place. Shame it wasn't a nicer one.
My reaction may seem over the top, it's just that without an attempt to make up for it, or properly acknoweldge that it was a dumb thing to send, I don't feel okay about seeing him again, and this comes after dates with a succession of seemingly eligble young men who turn out to 'boys' and who lack simple respect and courtesy.
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