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Read Steve Pavlina's article 'soulful relationships'

He says you don't need to build relationships with people, you only bolster existing relationships.

As well, I think the best way to make friends is to have an interesting life.. like for example, do you have any particular hobbies that would make you interesting to other people? What do you do with your time for fun? In saying that, you could have a very boring life, and make some really boring friends, so it's up to you..

I think you want to be interesting, without being (too) weird... ideally.

As well, maybe your attitudes towards other people. How do you feel about other people? that you're superior and they are stupid? or that you're inferior and you should put them on a pedestal? Or as equals that are the same as you?

To simplify things, the best thing to do would be to treat other people as you'd like to be treated..