My feeling is that if the text made you feel bad, and his response to you expressing that made you feel bad, then you should just let this guy go.
I think most of us have very good intuition about people early on and it pays to listen to it. I have been in situations where I found myself feeling uncomfortable about someone/things they said/how they treated me/how they talked about others within the first few encounters, but decided to 'not be judgmental' or 'give it a chance' because 'I don't really know them yet' and have pretty much always end up regretting investing time in them further down the track.
At the moment you don't have much invested, so it's easier to let go and look for someone who you feel awesome about all the time. When I think about the people I really value in my life, they are people I pretty much fell in love with right away (and I mean that in the friend sense too) and likewise for them. Life is too short to spend with people who send out negative energy to you.
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