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Originally Posted by Lychee  If you want out, then leave the relationship. The questions you asked towards the end of your post are questions you need to seriously think about. No one wants to be a rebound for anyone else.
I'm not trying to say you should forget about her troubles because you are still her friend, by all means show compassion and concern. But perhaps you are not ready to give of your self in a relationship at this level. It sounds like you need some time off to get yourself together. |
Nice take on my situation, thanks. My quesitons are tough ones and now I also have in my mind to think about what a good relationship would be for. I suppose I can be a better friend to her than what ever it is now.
I'd say I could easily make a relationship work great, if I wanted to. I just don't want to right now with her. She's much older than me and it wasn't always such an issue. But that could just be something to pin it on - that it's really just that we aren't in the same vibe as we used to be and we are stuck in some way.