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Old 01-26-2007, 04:12 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Angela View Post
But to surrender the need or illusion to control another human being seems to me to be a really huge great step on the road to love. (pissed-off might be another helpful thing to let go of, in my opinion.)
Hey Angela

I always like your insights into stuff. What a good way to look at surrendering in this case. Letting go! How nice.

Like what my counsellor told me before - to be able to forgive someone is actually letting go of the emotional burden on yourself! It's about letting go, not so much of how you react to the person but more on how you give yourself the gift of relief.

And that's also love in a way isn't it?
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