Originally Posted by Simcha
Does that make sense? Is it Italy you want - or the feelings you expect to have when you are there? If you can get even more of those feelings somewhere else - isn't that OK?
Yes, however I do need to have a list of specifics in order to get me excited and into the 'feeling.' I totally understand that a mere list of things whne manifested wont necessarily make me feel the way I thought it would. So i definately say 'I want to manifest someone who makes me feel like this.' But in your example, I would find it helpful to imagine being on the beaches of Italy, looking around the city and doing all the other things that i would like to do there, in order to evoke the feelings necessary to then be able to say 'I want an experience that makes me feel like this.' I think its OK to be specific because I have heard of stories where people have got exactly what they asked for but it didnt make them feel the way they thought. So Im thinking maybe be specific but then use the list to evoke your feelings.