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Originally Posted by evevera  I completely agree with you Gracestars. I think women do put up more than they really should and if it was me, I wouldn't talk to him again... but that's just me. There are plenty of fishes in the sea.
It wasn't so much the text he sent, it's the way he reacted to it, saying YOU're reading too much into it. If I got that response, that'd be the end of that. He clearly doesn't care that much about you or your feelings.
But I wouldn't give up on men yet... there's bound to be some good ones out there for you  |
You're right, and I won't give up... ha.. I never do. And I know my post may read as completely disproportionate to the event in question, but this comes after being dicked around by so many 'boys' and seeing so many AMAZING ladies treated similarly...of course the 'advice' given by my friend tonight didn't help...she literally said 'and don't read into to it too much, boys are simple beings, don't let them freak you out.' She means well, and I adore her, but really what is a girl supposed to do? Keep making the first move, keep okaying bad behaviour, even if it was unintentional? What happened to good old fashioned courting? Gosh, I would love to be courted by a confident man, and I would treat him equally well, because both parties deserve just that - good treatment.