I completely agree with you Gracestars. I think women do put up more than they really should and if it was me, I wouldn't talk to him again... but that's just me. There are plenty of fishes in the sea.
It wasn't so much the text he sent, it's the way he reacted to it, saying YOU're reading too much into it. If I got that response, that'd be the end of that. He clearly doesn't care that much about you or your feelings.
But I wouldn't give up on men yet... there's bound to be some good ones out there for you