Thank you for taking so so much time and trouble to reply.
First of all I didn't need anything to tell me our connection was very strong. Even when he was alive we had strange telepathic moments. The dreams were very positive and healing and I would like to believe they were real "connections" but I am a sceptic !! I've had these dreams before. When my sister Alice died I had several but when my sister Ellen died I had none.
I grieved them both the same..I had a spectacular one about my mother 30 years after she died...she showed me wellington boots with pink hearts on them and told me to buy them or I would get pneumonia...(I used to get wet feet all the time from walking the dog in the fields) I though it was hilarious because in my mind wellies were either black or green but when I went to buy a pair the assistant handed me pink ones with blue hearts....I was speechless to say the least.
The sceptic in me is telling me this is your subconscious speaking to you in images you would understand and take seriously but the mystic in me wants to believe the universe is more complicated and magical than we realise...
Thanks again....
Snagglepuss