There was way to many questions in the post to possibly so answer so I'll give a broad sharp response that should help with some.
It's perfectly fine to possess and pursue attaining money. Money is useful in doing other things which benefit yourself and society.
If you feel your current situation at home restricts your ability to make change then change that situation.
If your decision effects other people (or people who really care about you) then discuss the decisions you have made with them and explain why you have made them. But you have to realise that they may not support your decision and that they do not always know what is best for you. Sometimes you have to trust yourself.
Smile and do what you think is right, if it all falls over you have a fallback position.
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