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Originally Posted by C33  "A Surrendered Single recognizes that if she wants to attract the man with whom she can develop intimacy, she cannot control relationships. She cannot determine who asks her out, how he'll do it, when he'll call or e-mail, or if he'll commit to her."
I think we, girls/women can do better than surrender! And why is it geared towards women and not both men and women! |
Looks like the advice is very old fashioned. Probably still applies to some men and women, but it's certainly silly to stereotype any gender like that. I think men are often afraid of commitment, but that doesn't mean women have to put up with that. I once knew a couple who had been dating for around five years. If I was the woman in that relationship I wouldn't have waited around that long. At least I would've asked him to marry me, but some (most?) women act old fashioned and wait for the men to ask them.
Last I checked this isn't 1953.
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Originally Posted by C33 "A Pissed-Off Self-Actualized Single recognizes that if she wants men in her life with whom she can develop intimacy, she might just as well go get them. She can determine who asks her out by selecting the kind of men she wants to surround herself with: men who call,e-mail, want to commit to her." |
Sound like a plan.