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C33 · 01-25-2007, 11:00 PM

I don t want to be a surrendered anything!

I checked her site and it looked cheesy, her advice sounded stale and borderline mysoginistic( spelling surrendered!).

"A Surrendered Single recognizes that if she wants to attract the man with whom she can develop intimacy, she cannot control relationships. She cannot determine who asks her out, how he'll do it, when he'll call or e-mail, or if he'll commit to her."

I think we, girls/women can do better than surrender! And why is it geared towards women and not both men and women!

Why do we always have to relinquish power in order to "get" things/relationships?

I am off writing a book:

The Pissed-Off Self-Actualized Single: How to Hunt for a Husband and Lasso Him to the Marital Bed

"A Pissed-Off Self-Actualized Single recognizes that if she wants men in her life with whom she can develop intimacy, she might just as well go get them. She can determine who asks her out by selecting the kind of men she wants to surround herself with: men who call,e-mail, want to commit to her."

O.K, I'm going to cool off now!

01-25-2007, 11:00 PM	#7 (permalink)
C33 Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 623	Fk surrendering!** I don t want to be a surrendered anything! I checked her site and it looked cheesy, her advice sounded stale and borderline mysoginistic( spelling surrendered!). "A Surrendered Single recognizes that if she wants to attract the man with whom she can develop intimacy, she cannot control relationships. She cannot determine who asks her out, how he'll do it, when he'll call or e-mail, or if he'll commit to her." I think we, girls/women can do better than surrender! And why is it geared towards women and not both men and women! Why do we always have to relinquish power in order to "get" things/relationships? I am off writing a book: The Pissed-Off Self-Actualized Single: How to Hunt for a Husband and Lasso Him to the Marital Bed "A Pissed-Off Self-Actualized Single recognizes that if she wants men in her life with whom she can develop intimacy, she might just as well go get them. She can determine who asks her out by selecting the kind of men she wants to surround herself with: men who call,e-mail, want to commit to her." O.K, I'm going to cool off now!