James,
Firstly,when I Praised you on the other thread I was not being sarcastic. If this is the way you took it ala "Ha ha, thanks mate " then you are wrong, I'll repeat, it was a great post and I love quotes, Especially the Rocky one, adventive and brilliant.
Now, down to business, If putting your partner first is supplication, that is your belief not mine and hopefully not the belief of the majority of red blooded males and females on this planet.
I'd die for my partner and my stepboys, What true man or woman wouldn't?
You use the phrase, your phrase "nah," I dont agree etc, etc. this language is not only pompous, dismissive and disrespecting but childish, You've been on this forum a couple of months now and have made some really good contributions, why spoil it.
I can kick off and be agressive with the best of them, not only on a forum where it's easy to be brave but face to face when it reallly counts but one thing I rarely do is disrespect a person's oppinion, because they are entitled to it.
A lot of what you say I agree with, eg. you must take care of yourself in order to then help others, I really have got a soft spot for you, believe it or believe it not but I think your delivery needs work.
Chill out, have some fun and respect your co-membrs oppinions. Take it from one who has learned the hard way, it can take years to repair unnecessary comments, even if you truly think a person is an *******, smile and keep it to yourself, A woman once said to me, when I stop caring about you I will stop arguing with you, I ignored her and that woman walked, clever me.
Regards, Andy.
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