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Originally Posted by spirit4711  Another, for both parties: don't take it too seriously. Sex is supposed to be fun. Lighten up, create some bloopers, tell a joke, sing a song, whatever. Sex is about creating connection, IMO. |
I second that!
When sex is fun and playful, you'll learn more about what pleases the other person and what pleases yourself than when you take it all way too serious. You'll be more relaxed when you take it less serious, when you giggle and snort, when you start with tickling each other or even better a pillow fight! When you are more relaxed, the sex will go better.