I had these anger bursts too when I was interrupted. I had been living off few years on my own studying, but after army I didint have job so I had to move in with my parents. I quickly noticed that they ran the same patterns as they had when I was still younger, and I probably subconsciusly felt caged.
What ever the reason was; The thing that bothered me was the fact that I would snap at them when they interrupted me with something.
After I recognised the problem, I worked on other aspects of my life too to overall become more decent person. As I progressed, one day when I was meditating my mother would barge into my room as usual and interrupt me. This time I snapped too, but then I also had sudden realisation.
After that I found place of calm within myself, I dont remember to be interrupted once since. I recall reading some suttra about becoming like the elements, which cannot be corrupted.
Anyway I was consciously trying not to be such rude person either, and ofcourse I didnt try to be good dutiful son either. Rather than that I shifted my mindset on a new level and began to see my parents in a different way. After that I don't even recall to be "interrupted", its becouse I dont take it same way I used to. The problem was in me, not in them, its all about how you percieve things.
Now I still live with my parents harminously and I've learned to appriecete everything around me even more.
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