It wasn't rough, it was clinical.
Like he'd read a sex-manual that said:
"Step 1. tweak here for 2 minutes.
Step 2. tweak there for 2.5 mins.
Step 3. etc"
it was dull! .... and strangley unfeeling. I didn't get the impression he was enjoying it either, more that he felt it was the right thing to do. He certainly wasn't responding to the cues I was giving him!
So coming back to what I wanted to say to Plato, by all means learn tips and techniques, but don't let it feel like you are performing page 57 of a sex manual! Let it be natural, focus on what is working in the moment, slow down, respond to cues from the other person. Eye contact for emotional connection when appropriate and enjoy it!
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