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Originally Posted by rose A  yup. And its not between me and my daughter. This isn't about because I don't like the way the kid looks or how he wears his hair or his jeans. Its about his actions toward my daughter. Let the kid know we mean business. Don't turn this on me Angela, look at what is at stake here. Geeze. |
Well actually it is, when I read this thread. You are making decisions for your 18 year old daughter. Whatever it is, it is not empowering to her.
I'm not saying that is wrong. You're obviously concerned for her, and want to protect her. The question is, what is an effective way to do so, and what (if any) are negative side effects? I wish you wisdom.