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Originally Posted by Plato 
At the moment I'm just slapping around willy nilly,
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I can't begin to explain what image came to mind when I read that!
I think it is great that you ask. I agree with the others that suggest slowing down. Take your time and use eye contact to really connect with the other person. Ask her what she likes and wants. (In a sensual way, not in a clinical tick list kind of way!)
In the famous words of John Cleese "Don't stampeed towards the clitoris. Give her a kiss, boy!" i.e. lots of foreplay, building anticipation, tease her a bit, make each time a little different (i.e. don't get stuck in a predictable rut). Above all enjoy it and let her know that you are turned on by her enjoying it.
Above all, don't be like the guy who twisted my breast back and forward like he was trying to crack open a safe. I can't think how he thought it would be pleasurable for either of us!