Hey Plato,
I think there are two different components to being a good lover.
One is emotional, and the other is physical. The emotional part is how comfortable you are able to make a woman feel in bed. And yes that burden does fall on your shoulders as a man. So man up, take the lead. Also, learning directly from her responses is a key that most guys seem to miss from my chats with female friends/dates. Women are different in what stimuli they respond to and you can figure that out by being observant and present.
The physical skill part can be learned through various techniques. I highly recommend
"White Tiger Tantra" by Steve P. The guy is a friend of mine so you could say I am biased, but he also gets incredible results. He has worked with over 300 women who thought their private parts were broken...
It's a good resource.
take care
Plato wrote;
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Originally Posted by Plato  I've never bothered learning how to be a good lover. At least not consciously.
At the moment I'm just slapping around willy nilly, with no particular idea of whether it's good or not besides her reaction. As much fun as it is for me, I suspect I could give a lot more pleasure if I knew what I was doing.
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