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Old 05-25-2009, 09:11 PM   #5 (permalink)
Brutha
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My 18 yr olds boyfriend has always rough housed with my daughter.
I had to reread the post several time till I got the fact that you meant that you have an daughter that's 18 years old but don't have a boyfriend of that age.
It should be old's. Spelling out year also helps the readability.
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It happened a couple of days ago, he was holding her legs and tickling her feet and she was screaming for him to stop, which he only just laughed. That disturbed me. I had a talk with her and asked her how she felt that he was treating her. I told her that what he was doing wasn't sitting good with me at all. She replied that she is ok and she understands.
It may very well be a game to both of them.

If you tell her that it's wrong instead of giving her the freedom to make her own decisions she naturally tells you that she will take with her boyfriend about it but that's different from actually making the decision herself.

You seem primarily to focus on what you think yourself about the situation but not so much about what you daughter thinks about it. At least that's what you told us.
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