Unless you know that the relationship with your daughter is negative as in true abuse beatings or whatnots and I mean that your daughter allows this.. I would leave it alone..
It sounds if I read your statements right.. you think tickling or a little childish games like playing tag are definitely not all right as a adult.. you should re-think your judgment system on this.. (the best way is not to judge) and you should be very careful if your daughter is in a rebellion stage that by you putting your foot down when she's pissed of enough/put off enough she may never speak to you again come the time she's ready to go out on her own.. Also remember if you try “action” to change the situation.. if your daughter really cares about him.. she’ll just go right past you, be it lies or whatever else..
The best control in this world is not actually in your hands via action.. (taking action or force is never the best thing anyway) there is a much better way to resolve this situation through loa then anything else.. I would simply tell you to find/feel your way to a better place on this and ask yourself why you think childish play (which is what it sounds like) is not okay?
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