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Old 05-25-2009, 01:44 PM   #28 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Indiana View Post
"I am not good enough if I do not have what others have".
Wonderful! Can you start to see where in your life believing this thought has run you, like a habitual thought, and had you operating as if you had very limited choice? Trying to prove that you're good enough and at the same time avoiding people finding out that you're not? -- that's at your child-self level; of course your grown-up self knows you're good enough, but when the child-self has got a limiting decision like this, it's the kid who runs the show.

So now, can you see the impact that believing that thought has had on you all these years? Can you see the impact that your believing that thought has had on others all these years? Really look. You'll be amazed.

What would be possible in your life if you were not believing that thought? What might show up?
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