Thread: Social dilemma
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Old 05-24-2009, 02:35 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Ok, here's the deal. This is A's birthday party, not C's.

That means that you only need to ask yourself ONE question:

Am I A's friend?

The answer to that question will determine what the answer is to whether you should go to the party.

F**k C. This isn't about her or you. Going to this party isn't about YOUR enjoyment either. It's about your friendship with A. Are you her friend or not?

If you go to the party, focus on A and ignore C.
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