Be honest. And that includes being honest with yourself: what do you really want? really need? Are you in the relationship for the right reasons? How can your partner know you & be respectful of your feelings/beliefs if you're not being honest about them?
Communicate. Sometimes this means saying difficult things. Always communicate with your partner with respect and consideration, even if you're angry or hurt, no matter if they're male or female.
Listen (not just with your ears, but with your whole mind and body). This makes not just talking but sexual interactions, intimacy, and pretty much everything better.
Understand that in any relationship, there will be times where work is needed. You only get out of the relationship what you put into it.
Appreciate. Be thankful for what the person brings into your life. Sometimes make an extra effort to tell/show them your appreciation. Life is short, so don't get caught in a relationship-rut or take your partner for granted.
And I think you get a +1 for just asking this question in the first place. Why not just ask your partner "what can I do for you tonight?"
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