The real answer to your question is for you to STOP thinking in terms of what you can do for HER, and start thinking in terms of what you can do for yourself.
Because when you start thinking in terms of what you can do for women, you are qualifying yourself TO women (i.e. putting her up a little higher than you rather than on equal footing).
Women aren't complicated (that's a huge myth) when you understand what drives them.
Thing is, though, is to stop thinking in terms of what you can do for her. Do what feels right (not what you think will make her happy, because when you do what you think might make her happy you are doing things for her to please her and not because you truly want to do them for her). See her as complimentary to your life (as she SHOULD see you to hers) and not as your entire world or as someone you constantly have to please. Hone into situations where you need to comprimise, of course, but don't comprimise everything and lose your manhood to her.
I think women really just want men to be men, something that seems lost in our society. I don't think she wants you to be this touchy feely metrosexual man (which is touted by the media and entertainment industries). I think she just wants you to have a passion and let that passion radiate to all areas of your life. Don't do things because you feel compelled to do them. Do them because you WANT to do them. If you find yourself not WANTING to do them with her, then you are not compatible and need to find a woman you WANT to do them with.
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