Because I think this topic is extremely interesting, may I ask why you don't get anything worthwhile from hanging out with your kids? Like you just don't have fun, they don't make you laugh, or spark inspiration or imagination in you, or whatever emotions parents feel when they are around their kids? What is it that you just don't like about hanging out with your kids or children in general? Do you just feel like there is something more interesting that you could be doing instead? Could you just specify?
I'm not passing judgment, I just want to know because although I don't have any kids myself, I love kids, I think there is more that we can learn from children than they can from us. I really enjoy seeing the world from their eyes, a fresh perspective. Also, I'm currently dating someone who is a dad and he's worked out the custody with his ex wife where he sees his 6 year old daughter A LOT. I'd like to know more about your perspective.