1 Kissing is a big deal (but I've never been kissed so maybe I overrate it). Much more than no kiss. But if she was "tipsy" maybe the kiss doesn't mean a thing.
2 You can use alcohol. I don't do it cause I don't want any substance I can depend of to help me. And I wouldn't be myself really. You wouldn't either unless you drink the same every day. If you were a regular drinker and you didn't drink because you have a date, you wouldn't be yourself either.
Women and men change a lot with alcohol, so what happens when some have drunk show nothing about how both are or relate really (except if they drink very often)
3 Even if it doesn't work, it's good. Cause you're exposing yourself to what you feel attracted. And that's good for your future with women anyway. Yes, maybe it can bring you down some days, but your future relationships with women will be better.
4 She works at an engineering library, and your mum works at a library and your dad and brother are engineers...
the way I see it that's a typical Jung's synchronicity, a message of "go ahead this away" or "post signs to follow", Erin Pavlina says. That doesn't mean it guarantees that's the love of your life, no. It says it's a right path to follow, no matter the outcome. Synchs are a peculiar concept, I know, if you don't know what they are better forget about this point.
5 I've done a lot of research and women are not turned off by lack of experience of being a virgin at all, on the oppossite, most like it.
But maybe the lack of experience can make you fail anyway, not because she doesn't like it, just because you're not used to the situation.
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