The number one thing guys can do is to treat me as a human first, woman second. When coming from a base of respect and connection as fellow human beings, generous chivalry and open sexual interest can be VERY appealing in a man; but the same actions can also be a slimy turn-off when accompanied by a condescending macho attitude.
Treat me as a partner with complementary skills and a shared objective of happy companionship; appreciate my better traits and my efforts at self-improvement, but don't pretend I'm perfect or expect me to fill every void in your life. Find what is really important and start down a path pursuing those values/goals, then relax and stop worrying about other imperfections. From easygoing confidence, open up and fearlessly share your life with me.
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