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"I have tried to raise my self-esteem and I'm trying to be at least something too, but it doesn't happen in a night.
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You are right in that this may take some time to work through.
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I feel I'm nothing compared to that fact.
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This is a big belief you'll want to work through. You are valuable. You are important. And, these feelings have nothing to do with how others treat you. It has to do with your self esteem. Can you remember a time in the past when you did feel important? Hold onto those feelings and think about your present day. You are important today. I'm sure you can come up with examples of ways in which you are unique and provide value to the world around you.
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It feels like I want to be wanted too
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And you derserve to feel wanted. You deserve to feel of value. You may think of a way in which you are valued.
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How do I set my mind so I don't care about it? How to get over it?
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Instead of focusing on what you don't want, try to focus on what you do want. Here are better questions for you:
How can I feel better about myself and my relationship? What can I do today to feel better?
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..or how to show them all that I'm greater?
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What does this get you to show them all that you are greater?