I couldn't find anything about this kind of things to deal with so I decided to post a new thread.
The problem is simple to explain. My girlfriends ex-boyfriend is a famous artist in a band and I don't like that because I feel I'm nothing compared to that fact.
I hear him in a radio, at festivals and where ever and it's really annoying. And it doesn't help to know that she was the one being left and she loved him.
I have tried to raise my self-esteem and I'm trying to be at least something too, but it doesn't happen in a night. It feels like I want to be wanted too in a same time while I can't understand why people appreciate fame. I mean, what's up with that? Famous people are not any gods. But still, I hate the idea that she has had him over all the fans and I just can't give her anything like that. Even though she wouldn't want me to be famous or anything else either, but we all know that when anyone of us meet our favorite artist or actor we are not ourselves so being famous means something to us all.
How do I set my mind so I don't care about it? How to get over it?
..or how to show them all that I'm greater?
