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Originally Posted by ssandra  I guess the difference is that I donīt see how I am causing them pain. That person couldnīt care less who I sleep with, except that it is their spouse.. Meaning that their spouse is causing them pain, not me. |
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Originally Posted by ssandra If you are talking for example about breaking trust and betraying me... I still would be angry at my husband not at somebody else. I donīt have a relationship of trust with somebody else, they are not betraying me, my husband is. For me, there is no logic in being angry at somebody else. |
I can always tell the people who've never been cheated on, because they all say this.
When or if it ever happens to you, you get angry at the other person too. Why? Because you don't think logically when you find out, you think emotionally.
Yes, logic would tell you that it's your SO's fault, but emotionally? You want to beat the crap out of both of them.