Originally Posted by Parthon
Honestly though, how would you feel about the person that slept with your significant other. Would you be all forgiving and say "Oh, that's okay, they weren't the one that actually cheated. It was all my partner's fault." Definately not. You'd be angry with them both, because they were both involved in the act.
Honestly...? I couldnīt care less. I am not jealous and my husband can sleep with whoever he wants.
If you are talking for example about breaking trust and betraying me... I still would be angry at my husband not at somebody else. I donīt have a relationship of trust with somebody else, they are not betraying me, my husband is. For me, there is no logic in being angry at somebody else.
In regards to the test... yes, maybe that would be seen as conspiacy to commit cheating and I would get punished for it. But, I disagree.
I am not responsable for somebody else doing their own test. If I did mine, I donīt care who uses the answers.
I am not in the business of educating other people and raising them to see right from wrong.